room with a view

My office is in a relatively new building in downtown Tokyo just outside the Imperial Palace. Kind of awesome, right? It’s called the Shin Marunouchi Building and that’s how people know it. There aren’t street addresses here (there are no street names), so buildings are a big deal. Anyway, this building is amazing. In fact, when we arrived on the subway, we never even had to go outside to get to it. That’s a really interesting thing about Tokyo. There aren’t just tunnels under the city. There’s an entire city under the city. In fact, there’s so much under my building that I haven’t had to go outside during the day even once…which is awesome considering the heat and humidity.

One of the other great things about my office is the view. I’m on a trading desk (not because I’m trading…it’s just how the offices are set up, so I don’t sit right up against the window, but I have an amazing view to my right.

And here was the view at my desk when I first arrived:

The other side is in English, but how awesome is that?! (I removed my last name and company info…don’t know if one of you is a stalker. And I don’t want to get fired.)

Okay, my eyes are drooping…can’t keep them open. Must sleep, but stay tuned!

getting to work

Wow. Monday seems like five years ago. So many new things! This post will cover getting to work. Eventually, there will be less to share, but right now everything is just so new and different. I want to make sure I capture it all!

Monday morning I met my boss in my lobby so we could go into work together. Since it was my first time finding the office or riding the Tokyo subway, this just seemed like a good idea. And my instincts proved right. I’m sure I would have found the building eventually, but…it might have taken a while. (Not having constant google maps access has shown me just how reliant I have been on my iPhone for the past few years!)

Tokyo Metro! “We’re not in Kansas (New York) anymore.” First of all, they are uber clean. Like, “you could lick a hand rail” clean. I’m not sure how they do it (oh, wait, Japan is a culture of respect and honor…could that be it?), but seriously, they are that clean. I’d like you to notice that lack of gum stuck to the ground and trash everywhere. Even the tracks are clean!

There are also these great maps in each subway station. Every stop is numbered and every line is colored making it pretty easy to figure out how to get where you want to go.

And then there’s the schedule. Yes, my New York friends, a subway schedule. And they are on time. All the time. It’s incredible. Unless, of course, someone decides to jump on the tracks (something they do a lot more here than they do in New York with one of the highest suicide rates in the world–a little tidbit my boss shared with me on our way into work).

There are also these super handy neighborhood maps outside most subway exits–and the exits are numbered, too, making it super easy to figure out how and where you want to exit in order to be outside as little as possible. And why would you not want to be outside? Because it is ridiculously hot and a lot of the subway stations are attached to little underground worlds (clean, nice shopping areas, etc) that are AIR CONDITIONED!
Japan is one of the most homogeneous countries in the world (coming in third behind 2. South Korea and 1. North Korea). And just in case you wanted to know just how white I feel even here in “diverse” Tokyo (as compared to the rest of the country), here is a of picture from my commute. “One of these kids is not like the others…”

The subway is also incredibly quiet…and people like it that way.

Finally, I had to get used to standing on the left and walking on the right. Walking follows driving and there are signs everywhere to ensure that people know this. 

Another interesting tidbit. As we walked down into the subway stop, I noticed that, unlike me, most women were not wearing commuter shoes (aka flip flops)…partially because I noticed that my manager looked at my feet. And then she shared with me that most women in Tokyo wear their nice shoes while commuting because they are out in public and then they change into comfy shoes once they get into the office. And just like that, I understood why so many American men here have Japanese wives. I will continue to wear my flip flops to work, thank you very much.

sunday (aka first full day in tokyo)

Part of the reason I liked the idea of moving to Tokyo on a Saturday was being able to go to church and meet people the very next day. As luck would have it, I live about 20 minutes walking from the temple/church, even closer than I lived in Manhattan. And church (the English branch) is at 10 am. The best church time there is. So, to church I went.

view of the temple from within the park across the street

Similar to New York, the church has a varied population in the summer (lots of men with wives and children who have gone home to Utah and tourists). I did meet some nice members and, once I stopped sweating from the walk, I really enjoyed myself.

Once church was over, and I had just accepted the fact that I would be hot the rest of the day, I headed into the park just across the street. So reminiscent of the Japanese Tea Garden in Golden Gate Park that I loved as a child…only it was the real thing. Perhaps not a “tea garden”, but the park was beautiful.

A man painting. I didn’t want to get too close because I wasn’t sure he’d like me taking a picture of him, but it was very pretty.

the pond
the pond from a little hill
the beginning of the pond
and a waterfall with Japanese maples…I cannot wait to see the leaves change this fall!
On the walk home from church, I saw this little dude (we’ll assume it’s a “he”). Anyone want to take a stab at what this character belongs to? 

 He was outside of a fire station, so we’ll assume he’s a little fire fighter?

lunch
When I got home, I made myself this very basic, very delicious lunch. And why am I sharing this on my blog? Because A) while fruit here is super expensive, it is also super delicious. B) I am so happy to be living somewhere that has natural light again I cannot even explain it. And C) to prove that I don’t eat out every meal. 

 And then I finished off lunch with a favorite treat. I know you can get Pocky all over the US now, but eating them in Tokyo is just way cooler. And they totally remind me of when my mom went to Tokyo and brought us packs of these before you could get them anywhere. Such a fun treat!

And of course, then there was dinner. My boss offered to take me out to eat Sunday night and I took her up on it. She asked me if I wanted traditional Japanese or something else. Of course, I went with Japanese. And, while my boss is American and doesn’t speak much Japanese, she has command of “restaurant Japanese” so it was really nice to just have someone else take care of ordering! Also, have I mentioned just how much I love Japanese food? And that I haven’t touched a fork since I got here?

appetizers – these were just brought as a start to the meal, a sort of amuse bouche

soba

 She ordered a number of small plates for us. One of which was soba noodles. In the summer time, these are served cold (you can see ice on them if you look closely) and they are brought out with a sesame dipping sauce that’s amazing. They are thick and chewy and absolutely delicious!

yakitori

 Then, there was the yakitori (aka grilled meat on skewers). Also delicious. In case you were wondering, the food here is just incredible. It’s a good thing the gym is right in my building…

On that note, I must go exercise before the gym closes so I can keep eating all of these delicious things and not gain more than five pounds (I have to be realistic, right?!). But before that, tomorrow (or later tonight if I have the energy) I will be sharing with you Monday, my first day of work and the subways! More to come on the toilets, as well.

having something

Tonight I saw The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel. The movie, if you’ve never heard of it, is about a group of elderly folks who move to India to live at The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel. Part of why I was excited to see it was that my other option, in terms of international rotations, was Mumbai. The other reason I wanted to see it? The cast. Anyway, the movie was just lovely from start to end.

One of the characters, Evelyn, has some great aphorisms that come through her blog posts. There were two that I really liked and that have been swimming around in my brain since I saw the movie.

“The person who risks nothing, does nothing. Has nothing. The only real failure is the failure to try. And the measure of success is how well we cope.”

Risks are what make life interesting and great. And while they are scary (or can be), it is through those risks that we gain so much. There’s a reason why the cliche “nothing ventured, nothing gained” exists. It’s true.

I had a conversation with my therapist a couple of weeks ago (yeah, still in therapy) about this international opportunity (when it was just a hope) and she asked me why I really wanted to go. It was an interesting question. I mean, when I talk about it at work, I have all the right “work” answers…and they are all true. But maybe not the most true. There’s something great that happens in therapy (assuming you’re ready for therapy and you have a good therapist); it’s a safe place to be the most honest.

So, I thought about this for a while because, truthfully, I am pretty terrified to move halfway around the world to live in a country where I don’t speak the language, understand the culture, and am going to stick out like a sore thumb. Oh, and be in a new job that scares me quite a bit, as well.

Here’s what I came up with. I don’t want to miss out on whatever life has to offer me. And maybe I’ll be miserable. (This is what I think my dad fears, as he still remembers so vividly how homesick I was at 14 when I moved to Belgium all by myself.) And I’ll probably be lonely for a while. And I’m sure I’ll wonder what the hell I was thinking at various points in time (when I’m homesick, or lonely, or scared). And I know I will miss my family. But all of those things are worth it to me because I will have tried and I will have figured out how “to cope with the results. And not just to cope, but to thrive.”

At the end of my time there, be it six months or six years (right now, six months…), I will have something amazing. I will have an altered “me”; a “me” who sees the world differently, who understands herself differently; a “me” who has had an experience that no one can take away from her. And I definitely think that’s worth the risk.

an announcement

I’m guessing most of you who read (or used to read) this blog also see my FB/Twitter updates, but those are not my “journals” and so I feel like I should probably share this information here.

Really, I have a lot to report…part of why I haven’t had time to report on it. But, rather than try to capture all of that right now, I’ll just share with you this picture of a text my brother sent me because 1) it shares my news and 2) it’s pretty hilarious is you ask me. (Context: Cherity is my sis-in-law, Tannon is six, and Hope is 4.)

So, yes, in less than two months, I will be on a plane heading halfway around the world to live in a country where I’ve never been, don’t speak the language (although I’m working on it), and will be in a new job (same company, but new role).

My life is seriously so crazy. Time for a new label. #lifeinjapan (Can Blogger please get on the hashtag bandwagon???)