I need to:

• be less full of myself
• give less advice
• believe that I am someone worth dating
• figure out how to be confident, but not obnoxious
• be humble, but not self-deprecating
• keep my first impressions to myself
• always be kind
• think before I speak
• not have to be the leader of everything
• believe that others (even those I would deem less intelligent than I) might know more than I do
• create a budget
• have more faith
• pray to get married…okay, maybe just to date for now
• believe I can lose weight
• read more
• eat less
• let others lead me
• take less advice, when it’s not wanted
• keep the Sabbath better
• work harder
• procrastinate less
• prioritize better

Now the question is, how do I change those behaviors? What goals do I set for myself? I just don’t know. Something to think about.