personal care

  1. I am grateful for hot, running water and sewer systems.
  2. I am grateful for dental floss.

  3. I am grateful for nail polish remover.

Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has plenty; not on your past misfortunes of which all men have some.

Charles Dickens

happy birthday to me!

Today was my thirtieth birthday! I have lots to be grateful for, so here goes.

  1. I am grateful for yellow cake with chocolate frosting, from a box and a can respectively. It’s my favorite! And I am especially grateful for two cute nieces who made my cake, put 30 candles on it and yummy pink sprinkles.
  2. I am grateful for airplanes! Without airplanes, there’s no way my entire family could have been together for my birthday since it wasn’t a holiday weekend or anything.
  3. I’m grateful for Muddy Buddies. That’s right. And if you don’t know what they are, I’m very, very sorry for you.

For today and its blessings, I owe the world an attitude of gratitude.”

Clarence E. Hodges

Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.

Brian Tracy

happy birthday jennifer!

I have seen people do this on their blogs before and, while I have not done it before, I am going to do it today. I am not going to say that this is the beginning of a new tradition, because it might not be. But, for today, I am going to list 31 things I know, love, admire about Jen for the second anniversary of her 29th birthday.

  1. From the very first time I met Jen, I knew I wanted to be friends with her.
  2. Jen is her own person. This is a quality I admire so much as someone who is often trying to “fit in”. Not that Jen doesn’t “fit in”, but she is herself all the time, and I love that about her.
  3. Jennifer is a true friend. Our freshman year in college I was hanging out with this boy who I really kind of liked. One night, when Jen and I were going to a movie with this kid and Jen’s boyfriend at the time, the boys had gone to do something and Jen said, “Chloe, you’re not very nice when you hang out with Ted*.” This was something I needed to hear, but not something very many people would be willing to say.
  4. Jen has a beautiful voice. I have this recording of Jen and her sister singing “Landslide” and it is my favorite rendition of the song.
  5. Jennifer is an amazing writer. I love her blog. I love how she will write poems and songs for all sorts of occasions. Sometimes, I even get a little jealous of her talents.
  6. Jen is one of the nicest people I know. It’s kind of amazing that she has put up with me all of these years, since I am not exactly that. She always keeps me in check when I need it.
  7. Jen is always up for fun. My whole freshman experience changed when we moved in together.
  8. She is a great decorator of cakes and makes awesome ones for her nieces and nephews birthdays.
  9. She currently lives in Kansas, a place she has called home before.
  10. She is a great cook.
  11. Jennifer loves to play games (boardgames and the like). Things have not been the same for us (The Gang, formerly known as Jen and the Gang), since she and Somebody moved to Kansas.
  12. Jennifer has lived all over the place. I knew we would be friends when I discovered that she had lived in northern California. There’s just something about NorCal people. We are super cool.
  13. Jen has great taste in music.
  14. Jennifer is married to Somebody, and I love him by association.
  15. Jennifer is really smart.
  16. Jen has her MPA.
  17. She doesn’t love her job right now, but I know she still works hard because that’s who she is.
  18. She has two brothers and two sisters, just like me.
  19. Jen is a middle child.
  20. She has enough nieces and nephews that I am pretty sure I have lost count…I think it’s 11?
  21. Our freshman year we drove up to Rexburg to visit her older sister, Karla, who had just had her first baby, Kolby (Jen, I’m totally doubting myself as I write this stuff, so correct me if I screw anything up). That is where I was introduced to “Better than Sex” cake. It’s absolutely delicious!
  22. Jennifer is super thoughtful.
  23. A funny memory: our freshman year, I inherited my sister’s car when she left on a mission. I subsequently crashed the car, rear-ending someone on the freeway. It wasn’t totalled, but before I could get it fixed, Jen needed to borrow it to take her sister, Heidi, to the airport. Like an idiot, I bungee-corded (as opposed to tying with a rope) the hood down. On the way to the airport, the bungee cord snapped. The hood flew up, blocked her view (except for a teeny little spot at the bottom of the windshield) and dented the roof of the car. It was awful.
  24. Jennifer is an awesome married friend. You know how some friends get married and they either a) drop you in the dust or b) try to hook you up with anyone they know so that you, too, can become a married. That is not Jen. She loves us just the same as she always has.
  25. Jen is one of my favorite people to do just about anything with because she is so easy going. I never have to worry about whether or not she’s enjoying herself because she makes everything enjoyable.
  26. I love Jennifer’s confidence and have always envied it. I don’t know if she knows that, but it is 100% true.
  27. Jennifer is beautiful.
  28. She has an amazing smile and I love that it’s just a little crooked…and she has a niece who smiles just like her, the lucky girl.
  29. Jennifer is the most photogenic person I have ever known. Seriously, I don’t think I have ever seen a bad picture of her. She also has an amazing talent for self-portraits and has taught Somebody the way. It super fun to see his progression in photos as she has instructed him on just how to smile, tilt and angle for the self-portrait. I wish she would have taught me.
  30. When I graduated and moved down to Arizona, Jen not only drove down with me so that I would have company on the 10-hour-drive, but she stayed for a weekend and helped me and my family paint my new house (well, mine with my sister and my brother) into the wee hours of the morning…and even slept on an uncomfortable sleeper-sofa.
  31. And last, but not least, Jennifer is an amazing example. This is something else I’m not sure she always recognizes. There are times, honestly, when I think, “What would Jen do in this situation?” And when I follow her example, I always feel good about my choices.

Happy Birthday Jen! I love you!

priorities

  1. I am thankful for friends. Today, in particular, I am thankful for my friend, Jennifer. Jen and I met a little over 12 years ago, our freshman year in college. We became fast friends, after fighting for a seat in American Heritage (at least I think that’s how it all started). We lived on the same floor the first semester, and then in the same dorm room second semester. Today is Jen’s birthday (she was born exactly one year and one day before me) and twelve years ago, we had a fabulous combined party. Jen is absolutely amazing!
  2. I am thankful for my AWESOME family. As I have mentioned, I flew to Arizona this weekend to spend my birthday with my sister and brother and their respective families. What I didn’t know is that, somehow without giving it away, the rest of my family had flown down to be here to help me celebrate the big 30! Imagine my surprise when my 2-year-old nephew popped out from behind a wall when he lives in Las Vegas. It was amazing!
  3. I am thankful that I decided not to cross something off my list this weekend so that I could watch my niece’s soccer game. I know that probably sounds kind of ridiculous, but as someone who was raised by a mother who always wanted us to know how important we were to her, I just feel like my niece needs to know that watching her soccer game (and being there to support her) is way more important to me than sky diving.
“No duty is more urgent than that of returning thanks.”
Saint Ambrose
“Living in thanksgiving daily is a habit that will enrich our lives and the lives of those we love. We can live in thanksgiving daily by opening our arms to those around us. When was the last time you told someone you love how much they mean to you? When was the last time you expressed your gratitude to someone who has always been there for you, someone who has sacrificed for you, someone whose heart has always been filled with hopes and dreams for you? When was the last time you unselfishly reached out to help another in need? Every time we cheer another’s heart, every time we ease another’s burden, every time we lift a weary hand, we show our gratitude to that God to whom we owe all that we have and all that we are.”

Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin

too much to say

The hard thing about the gratitude challenge is that once you start looking for your blessings, you start to realize just how many you have…which makes writing only three very hard. So…my three for today.

  1. I am grateful for friends of friends who are willing to do huge favors for me, even though they don’t know me. Janssen is a friend of my friend Jennifer. Janssen doesn’t know me from Eve, other than a little mutual blog stalking. She lives near one of the University of Texas at Austin. I emailed her a while back to see if she could get me in touch with any people in the MBA program. She totally hooked me up. Then, I asked her if she would read, review and edit my essays for UT. This was no small undertaking. My first drafts were, well, bad and there were four of them. She has a life, a job, a husband, so it’s not like she has all of this free time. Anyway, she said she would be happy to do it and the result, a few very good essays. Thanks Janssen!!!
  2. I am grateful for the opportunity I have to be a part of Sowers of Hope (this is not the official website…that will launch soon, but I saw the prototype tonight and my design friends would be proud). Tonight we elected a Board of Directors and discussed the roles we all hope to play in the future. As I sat in this meeting, I realized that if the only reason I ended up back in Utah was to be a part of this, it was totally worth it. And…I think I will be heading to Congo this summer. How exciting is that?
  3. I am grateful for a wonderful office staff. Seriously, my employees are fantastic…and not just because they threw me a birthday party today (thanks, Elise, for organizing it)! I have such a great team. They each bring their own personality and strengths to the mix and they all work so well together. They provide me with hours of entertainment and make every day at my semi-non-fulfilling job enjoyable. P.S. My birthday isn’t until Sunday.

“You simply will not be the same person two months from now after consciously giving thanks each day for the abundance that exists in your life. And you will have set in motion an ancient spiritual law: the more you have and are grateful for, the more will be given you.”

Sarah Ban Breathnach