What is this? A center for ants?

  1. I am grateful for kindred spirits. There is a quote that captures my feelings on this matter perfectly.

    It is not time or opportunity that is to determine intimacy; it is disposition alone. Seven years would be insufficient to make some people acquainted with each other, and seven days are more than enough for others. – Sense and Sensibility

  2. I am grateful for excellent books that are well written and make me think. I am currently reading The History of Love by Nicole Krauss for my book club (that I have yet to attend and once again will miss this week due to an impromptu trip out of state) and I love it. Unfortunately, I left it in Las Vegas so it is being sent to me. Although, considering I have one more application due on Saturday, this is probably a good thing. I’m crap when it comes to putting down a good book, especially for something as mundane and tedious as essay writing.
  3. I am grateful that my sixth grade core teacher, Mrs. Hoffaker, made us read as much as she did. And I’m even more grateful that she allowed me to bend her “no more than one book from any series” rule. I loved The Baby-sitters Club books and don’t think I would have caught the reading bug had it not been for Mrs. Hoffaker and that series.

Be glad of life because it gives you the chance to love, and to work, and to play and to look up at the stars.

Henry Van Dyke

we always knew you were a whoopsie

  1. I am grateful that one of my insecurities is not social situations. While I don’t love huge social situations, I survive just fine and rarely avoid them. And I love meeting new people in small groups. So, I’m a little chubby. Apparently, there are worse things.
  2. I am grateful for friends who invite me to movies on the fly and are always thinking of fun things to do.
  3. I am grateful that Delta has a flight from Vegas to Salt Lake the Sunday after Thanksgiving, since Southwest, my airline of choice, didn’t have anything.

There is no better opportunity to receive more than to be thankful for what you already have. Thanksgiving opens the windows of opportunity for ideas to flow your way.

Jim Rohn

happy birthday jennifer!

I have seen people do this on their blogs before and, while I have not done it before, I am going to do it today. I am not going to say that this is the beginning of a new tradition, because it might not be. But, for today, I am going to list 31 things I know, love, admire about Jen for the second anniversary of her 29th birthday.

  1. From the very first time I met Jen, I knew I wanted to be friends with her.
  2. Jen is her own person. This is a quality I admire so much as someone who is often trying to “fit in”. Not that Jen doesn’t “fit in”, but she is herself all the time, and I love that about her.
  3. Jennifer is a true friend. Our freshman year in college I was hanging out with this boy who I really kind of liked. One night, when Jen and I were going to a movie with this kid and Jen’s boyfriend at the time, the boys had gone to do something and Jen said, “Chloe, you’re not very nice when you hang out with Ted*.” This was something I needed to hear, but not something very many people would be willing to say.
  4. Jen has a beautiful voice. I have this recording of Jen and her sister singing “Landslide” and it is my favorite rendition of the song.
  5. Jennifer is an amazing writer. I love her blog. I love how she will write poems and songs for all sorts of occasions. Sometimes, I even get a little jealous of her talents.
  6. Jen is one of the nicest people I know. It’s kind of amazing that she has put up with me all of these years, since I am not exactly that. She always keeps me in check when I need it.
  7. Jen is always up for fun. My whole freshman experience changed when we moved in together.
  8. She is a great decorator of cakes and makes awesome ones for her nieces and nephews birthdays.
  9. She currently lives in Kansas, a place she has called home before.
  10. She is a great cook.
  11. Jennifer loves to play games (boardgames and the like). Things have not been the same for us (The Gang, formerly known as Jen and the Gang), since she and Somebody moved to Kansas.
  12. Jennifer has lived all over the place. I knew we would be friends when I discovered that she had lived in northern California. There’s just something about NorCal people. We are super cool.
  13. Jen has great taste in music.
  14. Jennifer is married to Somebody, and I love him by association.
  15. Jennifer is really smart.
  16. Jen has her MPA.
  17. She doesn’t love her job right now, but I know she still works hard because that’s who she is.
  18. She has two brothers and two sisters, just like me.
  19. Jen is a middle child.
  20. She has enough nieces and nephews that I am pretty sure I have lost count…I think it’s 11?
  21. Our freshman year we drove up to Rexburg to visit her older sister, Karla, who had just had her first baby, Kolby (Jen, I’m totally doubting myself as I write this stuff, so correct me if I screw anything up). That is where I was introduced to “Better than Sex” cake. It’s absolutely delicious!
  22. Jennifer is super thoughtful.
  23. A funny memory: our freshman year, I inherited my sister’s car when she left on a mission. I subsequently crashed the car, rear-ending someone on the freeway. It wasn’t totalled, but before I could get it fixed, Jen needed to borrow it to take her sister, Heidi, to the airport. Like an idiot, I bungee-corded (as opposed to tying with a rope) the hood down. On the way to the airport, the bungee cord snapped. The hood flew up, blocked her view (except for a teeny little spot at the bottom of the windshield) and dented the roof of the car. It was awful.
  24. Jennifer is an awesome married friend. You know how some friends get married and they either a) drop you in the dust or b) try to hook you up with anyone they know so that you, too, can become a married. That is not Jen. She loves us just the same as she always has.
  25. Jen is one of my favorite people to do just about anything with because she is so easy going. I never have to worry about whether or not she’s enjoying herself because she makes everything enjoyable.
  26. I love Jennifer’s confidence and have always envied it. I don’t know if she knows that, but it is 100% true.
  27. Jennifer is beautiful.
  28. She has an amazing smile and I love that it’s just a little crooked…and she has a niece who smiles just like her, the lucky girl.
  29. Jennifer is the most photogenic person I have ever known. Seriously, I don’t think I have ever seen a bad picture of her. She also has an amazing talent for self-portraits and has taught Somebody the way. It super fun to see his progression in photos as she has instructed him on just how to smile, tilt and angle for the self-portrait. I wish she would have taught me.
  30. When I graduated and moved down to Arizona, Jen not only drove down with me so that I would have company on the 10-hour-drive, but she stayed for a weekend and helped me and my family paint my new house (well, mine with my sister and my brother) into the wee hours of the morning…and even slept on an uncomfortable sleeper-sofa.
  31. And last, but not least, Jennifer is an amazing example. This is something else I’m not sure she always recognizes. There are times, honestly, when I think, “What would Jen do in this situation?” And when I follow her example, I always feel good about my choices.

Happy Birthday Jen! I love you!

too much to say

The hard thing about the gratitude challenge is that once you start looking for your blessings, you start to realize just how many you have…which makes writing only three very hard. So…my three for today.

  1. I am grateful for friends of friends who are willing to do huge favors for me, even though they don’t know me. Janssen is a friend of my friend Jennifer. Janssen doesn’t know me from Eve, other than a little mutual blog stalking. She lives near one of the University of Texas at Austin. I emailed her a while back to see if she could get me in touch with any people in the MBA program. She totally hooked me up. Then, I asked her if she would read, review and edit my essays for UT. This was no small undertaking. My first drafts were, well, bad and there were four of them. She has a life, a job, a husband, so it’s not like she has all of this free time. Anyway, she said she would be happy to do it and the result, a few very good essays. Thanks Janssen!!!
  2. I am grateful for the opportunity I have to be a part of Sowers of Hope (this is not the official website…that will launch soon, but I saw the prototype tonight and my design friends would be proud). Tonight we elected a Board of Directors and discussed the roles we all hope to play in the future. As I sat in this meeting, I realized that if the only reason I ended up back in Utah was to be a part of this, it was totally worth it. And…I think I will be heading to Congo this summer. How exciting is that?
  3. I am grateful for a wonderful office staff. Seriously, my employees are fantastic…and not just because they threw me a birthday party today (thanks, Elise, for organizing it)! I have such a great team. They each bring their own personality and strengths to the mix and they all work so well together. They provide me with hours of entertainment and make every day at my semi-non-fulfilling job enjoyable. P.S. My birthday isn’t until Sunday.

“You simply will not be the same person two months from now after consciously giving thanks each day for the abundance that exists in your life. And you will have set in motion an ancient spiritual law: the more you have and are grateful for, the more will be given you.”

Sarah Ban Breathnach

fabulous fall dinner

So, I’m posting some pictures as a break from the essay monotony. This was from our fall dinner last Sunday. And in case you’re wondering; no, I didn’t take a single picture of people.

Emily brought yummy potato soup. Bread bowls provided by Sarah. And Kelly brought salad that I neglected to photograph.

Tuscan Bean Soup
Brought by Candice
  • 1 Tablespoon olive oil
  • 1 onion chopped
  • 2 cloves garlic
  • 1 red bell pepper
  • 3 cups low fat low sodium chicken broth
  • 1 cup canned tomatoes
  • 1 1/2 cup Kidney beans
  • 2 teaspoons chopped thyme
  • 1/2 cup chopped spinach
  • 1 cup seashell pasta
  • black pepper

Combine oil, onion, garlic saute for five mins. Add bell pepper and saute. Add broth, tomatoes and beans. Bring to a boil and reduce heat to low and simmer for 20 mins. Add thyme, spinach and pasta. Cook until pasta is soft. Serve.

In case you’re wondering, while I did over bake them, the brown on top is actually caramelized sugar. Some of it is more caramelized than the rest.

Miniature Pumpkin Cheesecakes (brulee)
with Cinnamon Crust
stolen from the Williams-Sonoma website

These fanciful little desserts are perfect for entertaining and are ideal for an autumn buffet. The graham cracker crust is seasoned with a touch of cinnamon, echoing the warm spices in the pumpkin filling.

Ingredients:

For the crust:

  • 1/2 cup graham cracker crumbs
  • 1 1/4 tsp. ground cinnamon
  • 2 Tbs. unsalted butter, melted
  • 2 Tbs. sugar

For the filling:

  • 1 cup pecan pumpkin butter
  • 1/2 tsp. ground cinnamon
  • 1/4 tsp. ground ginger
  • 1/2 tsp. freshly grated nutmeg
  • 14 oz. cream cheese
  • 1/3 cup sugar
  • 2 eggs
  • 1/2 tsp. vanilla extract

Directions

  • Have all the ingredients at room temperature. Preheat an oven to 325°F. Lightly butter the wells of a miniature pumpkin cheesecake pan.
  • To make the crusts, in a small bowl, combine the graham cracker crumbs, cinnamon, butter and sugar and stir until blended. Divide the mixture among the prepared wells. Using a shot glass or other small glass, press the mixture evenly into the bottom of the wells.
  • Bake until the crusts are set, about 10 minutes. Transfer the pan to a wire rack and let cool completely. Reduce the oven temperature to 300°F.
  • To make the filling, in a small bowl, stir together the pumpkin butter, cinnamon, ginger and nutmeg. Set aside.
  • In the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with the flat beater, beat together the cream cheese and sugar on low speed until smooth, about 5 minutes, stopping the mixer occasionally to scrape down the sides of the bowl. Add the eggs one at a time, beating well after each addition and stopping the mixer occasionally to scrape down the sides of the bowl, then beat in the vanilla. Add the pumpkin mixture and beat until completely blended, about 1 minute. Pour the batter into the crusts, dividing it evenly among the wells.
  • Bake until the filling is set and puffed but not cracked, 23 to 25 minutes. Transfer the pan to a wire rack and let cool to room temperature. Refrigerate for at least 3 hours before unmolding.
  • To unmold, press an index finger through the hole in the base of each well and push up to remove the cheesecake and the metal disk. Carefully slide a small spatula underneath the cheesecake to remove it from the disk, then transfer to a platter. Makes 12 miniature cheesecakes.
  • If you are feeling a little ambitious and own a torch, I recommend adding a little brulee topping to the cheesecake. It gives this great little crunch and a bit of a caramel flavor!